Being “In Love” with a person means that you can fall out of love with them. In love is a state of mind. It’s not true feelings. We can grow impatient and sick of their ways, resulting in us wanting something new.Then there are those who we love. The people who will push our buttons, aggravate us and we’ll even have serious conflict with – but at the end of the day, we love them.
Consider an argument with your sibling, parents – or someone you
genuinely, unconditionally love. No heated exchange or conflict is going to alter your deepest feelings. Maybe in a moment you’re dissatisfied with them, but the love remains. With the idea of love, we can be in and fall out of — but once we really do love, we always will.